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Live by Your Thoughts
A car can only go in two directions,
either forward or backward, and like a car, we can move
forward or backward in our lives. Our every thought
either takes us toward our goals and desires or away,
and has a positive or negative effect on the direction
of our lives.
Compare your brain to a computer. If
a new PC is loaded up with virus contaminated programs
would you expect it to run smoothly? Of course not,
because you get out of the computer exactly what you
put in - your brain is exactly the same.
Your every thought determines the direction
of your life. If you are moving backward then take time
to analyze your thoughts. Make a determined effort to
recognize negative thoughts and treat them as your worst
enemy. Try not to dwell on them. Putty can be molded
into any shape or form and so too, your life can be
shaped and your destiny set by your thoughts.
Remember, the potential for change is
the same for everyone. It only takes acceptance of the
idea that change is possible coupled with the determination
to follow-through. It's not always easy to control our
thoughts, but certainly not impossible, and the rewards
can last a lifetime.
There are many books on the subject
of self-help, but remember, you must take action to
succeed. Your thoughts will not change simple by reading
an article or book. You must apply what you learn to
your everyday affairs. Allow what you read to awaken
the possibility of change within you, then take action.
One of the most beneficial practices
for positive thinking is to look for the "good"
in everyone and everything. Remember to encourage others
everyday by a kind word or deed and be ready to offer
(or receive) compliments.
Find opportunities to put the power
of your positive thinking to work. For example, you
might be standing in a long line at the supermarket
checkout. Rather than get upset, do your utmost to help-out
and encourage others with a kind word or compliment.
You will be surprised at the positive reaction and at
how many people will bless you with a wonderful smile
in-return.
Taking the time to notice others and
look for the "good" in every situation will
not only life your spirits, but will brighten the day
for everyone around you - it's a win-win situation to
be sure. There are a 1001 ways to look for the good
in others, be they family, friends or those you may
only meet once. So, get the lead-out, get rid of those
negative thoughts and become a winner.
Begin today to change your thought patterns
one step at a time. Set yourself a goal for the week
or month and devote full attention to controlling your
thoughts. Start with at least one hour each day and
increase the time as your confidence and thinking improve.
It is a habit that needs nurturing and a habit you'll
come to cherish.
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