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Three Steps to a Closer Family
In today's busy world, it's easy
to forget what matters most. Being part of a healthy,
loving family is one of the best gifts we can give our
children and creating it is much easier than most people
think. Three easy steps are all it takes to get started.
Step One: Create an open line of communication.
Allowing your children to speak openly and freely about
their concerns and troubles is a sure-fire way to increase
your family's closeness. Maintain honesty and you will
find that problems get solved more quickly and easily.
Instilling open communication in your children will
also help them in all aspects of their lives later on.
Listen with an open heart and a willing spirit. Don't
judge the thoughts and feelings of other family members.
Rather, try to understand where they are coming from
and figure out solutions to ease their problems.
Step Two: Spend quality time
together each week. Many parents work full-time jobs
and it's difficult to fit in time for relaxation and
leisure. This is not impossible to do and it's very
important that you make time for your family. Take turns
among members of the family deciding what to do together.
Try to pick activities that encourage talking and interaction.
For instance, bowling will enhance relations better
than silently watching a movie in a theater. Try to
keep the activity lighthearted and fun. Laughter bonds
better than anything and its affects will ripple throughout
your life for days.
Step Three: Set up a list of
chores. This doesn't sound like it will bring a family
closer, but one would be amazed to see what it can do.
Having a clearly defined list of responsibilities for
each member of the family will ease frustration and
resentment among family members. It will also encourage
family members to get involved with household responsibilities
and teach them that teamwork is important. Be sure to
put the list up in a place that everyone will see easily
and make a point of congratulating people when they
do something well.
There are many ways to gain closeness
within your family. These three steps are designed to
give you a head start and help you create the family
life you have always dreamed of. Initiate conversation
with your family and seek out their ideas and suggestions
for gaining a closer relationship. Above all, be open
and willing to listen and work together. It won't always
be easy, but it will always be worth it.
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