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Men Want a Classy Woman
Ladies, this one is
for you. Your mother always told you “Don’t
give away the farm.” Yet men have been saying,
“Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for
free?” It’s a paradox; women think they need
to put out, or they’ll lose their man. Men don’t
want a woman who puts out; at least not long term they
don’t. Are you the type of woman who men take home
to bed; or the type who men take home to meet Mom?
One man described it this way, “When
I’m talking to a woman, either on-line, on the
phone, or in person, who do you think is the first person
to bring up sex? Almost always it’s the woman.
I don’t. I can tell almost instantly if the woman
is classy or cheap. I want a woman who is confident,
not insecure and thinks she needs to attract me by offering
up free sex. What healthy, heterosexual man doesn’t
want or enjoy sex with a woman? But I don’t want
someone that everyone else has enjoyed. A classy woman
is intriguing, mysterious and alluring. Her appearance
and the way she carries herself can be very appealing.
There’s a huge difference between sexy and sleazy;
and unfortunately many woman don’t know the difference.”
Ladies wise up! If you don’t understand
why you keep attracting the wrong men, it’s because
your standards are too low. Set the bar higher. Do not
engage in innuendos or blatant conversation that is
sexual in nature. Just don’t do it. You may think
you are flirting; but what you are doing is sending
a signal to the man that you’re easy. You may hook
him for a time. You may both be filled with infatuation,
but it won’t last. Men will look at you as the
good time gal; not as a keeper.
What are you wearing? Low rise jeans
and tummy shirts are in. They’re not in if you
don’t have the body to wear that style of clothing
and they’re not in if you’re trying to convince
the men that you’re a classy lady. That is not
to say you need to haul out the turtle neck sweaters
and long skirts which cover up your ankles.
You will not be able to change your
belief system overnight; your views on what men want.
But what you can change almost instantly is how you
dress and how you talk. Decide today that you will not
openly discuss sex or make comments of a sexual nature
with men. There are ways you can let someone know you’re
interested without sounding like a hootchie mamma. And
lastly, take inventory of your wardrobe. Leave a little
to the imagination, don’t show it all.
Men want a classy woman.
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