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How to Say I Love You
If you are certain, then plan a special
occasion for it. Make it a significant moment in your
life - one to remember with fondness for your whole
life.
Remember the words from an old song...
"Be sure it's true when you say
I love you, it's a sin to tell a lie".
The concept of "sin" has lost
its meaning for most in our modern era, and even "love"
has lost its importance.
If you still believe in "falling
in love" then you will realize how difficult it
is to say, "I love you" in a meaningful way.
Three little words that could change your life forever.
The words, themselves, have lost their meaning because
of overuse especially when it's not really true. Everybody
says them.
However, when you want tell your partner
of your love it's such a hard decision to make for many
reasons. Will your partner return your love? Will your
partner simply accept your declaration with indifference?
Will he or she feel threatened? It is such a common
problem that even "The Seinfeld Show" had
an episode on it.
So make it easy on yourself and plan
the declaration so that as much as possible you eliminate
the problems. The first step, of course, is to be certain
you really are in love. If you so enjoy being with your
partner that you want to be with him or her to the exclusion
of all others, if you think of him or her every day
when you are apart, you are probably in love. If you
have even a small doubt you should wait a little longer.
If you are certain, then plan a special
occasion for it. Make it a significant moment in your
life - one to remember with fondness for your whole
life. Arrange an intimate dinner at your favorite restaurant
and make it as romantic as you can. Give him or her
a small gift because you love being with them, or you
are so glad that you met them.
After dinner while holding your partner
intimately gaze intently into their eyes and say, "I
love you so much it hurts when we are apart. I hope
that we can stay together forever".
Do not be disappointed if your partner
does not return your declaration. They may not yet be
ready and might need more time to state their feelings.
Continue to share with your partner the highs and lows
of your partner's life. Care for your partner's happiness
and be on guard to protect his happiness.
Under no circumstances should you ever
ask your partner, "Do you love me"?
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